Simple Test
Should I Break Up Test
Should you stay in this relationship? 12 questions read your own doubts as a traffic light — green, yellow, orange, or red.
Stay or go? If that question keeps coming back, these 12 statements look at emotional distance, how often you argue, whether you can picture a future together, and respect and trust — then show where your doubts sit on a four-color traffic light. It won't tell you to break up; it's a mirror for checking in with yourself, not a verdict.
Before you start
- • Answer for this relationship as it really is, not as you wish it were
- • Go by how things have felt overall lately, not just the good days
- • Be honest about your own feelings instead of keeping score of who's to blame
Quick note
This is a just-for-fun self-check. It won't tell you to leave or to stay — it's a mirror for thinking about your relationship, not a verdict.
Your answers are processed on your device only — nothing is saved or sent.
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Should I break up or stay? This free test asks you to rate 12 statements about your relationship — emotional distance, how often you argue, whether you can picture a future together, respect and trust — on a five-point scale. Your total (0–48) lands on a four-color traffic light: green 0–12, yellow 13–24, orange 25–36, red 37–48. It reflects your own doubts, not your partner's feelings, and it never tells you to break up. Your answers stay on your device.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q. Can this test tell me whether to break up?
A. No. It only shows how much doubt you're carrying right now; the decision to stay or leave is always yours.
Q. How is the score calculated?
A. Each of the 12 statements is rated from 0 (not at all) to 4 (very much), for a total between 0 and 48. A higher score means more doubt signals have built up.
Q. What do the traffic-light colors mean?
A. Green (0–12) means steady ground, yellow (13–24) a few doubts, orange (25–36) time to take stock, and red (37–48) that the relationship is wearing you out. None of them is a verdict.
Q. Are my answers saved?
A. No. Your answers are processed only in your browser and are not stored or sent anywhere.